There are all these cliches about knowing when you have found "The One." That he will literally make your heart feel swollen with happiness and gratitude. That you'll feel more like yourself when you are with him than when you are without him. That when he is not with you, there's something missing. That you'll feel so close when he holds you that you'll be unable to determine where you end and he begins. That as a unit, you will be greater than the sum of your parts. That you'll feel an inexplicable sense that something bound you to him even before you even met him. That you will find yourself capable of forgiving things you once thought unforgivable.
I always thought all of that was bullshit. Now I know better. Don't settle until you feel all of the above. Satsang, above all. Aim for the highest.
Love,
Momma
